Tuesday, October 29, 2013
Sunday, October 27, 2013
Let's talk about....
Love and Logic!
It's been over a week since Sharon came to our meeting to discuss Love and Logic with us and I want to know how it's going! Are you trying stuff? Are you scared to try something? Has it gone terribly wrong? Do you have questions about a technique you have used? Share your stories with us by leaving a comment. This could be really fun...give it a try!
~April
It's been over a week since Sharon came to our meeting to discuss Love and Logic with us and I want to know how it's going! Are you trying stuff? Are you scared to try something? Has it gone terribly wrong? Do you have questions about a technique you have used? Share your stories with us by leaving a comment. This could be really fun...give it a try!
~April
Sunday, October 13, 2013
MOPS Meeting
Tuesday is our next
meeting. Our guest speaker will be talking to us about Love and Logic.
Here's a little blurb about it from their website...
"Trusted for over 30 years, Love and Logic is a philosophy founded in 1977 by Jim Fay and Foster W. Cline, M.D. It is the approach of choice among leading educators, parents, and other professionals worldwide.
"Trusted for over 30 years, Love and Logic is a philosophy founded in 1977 by Jim Fay and Foster W. Cline, M.D. It is the approach of choice among leading educators, parents, and other professionals worldwide.
The Love and Logic Institute is dedicated to making parenting and teaching fun and rewarding,
instead of stressful and chaotic. We provide practical tools and
techniques that help adults achieve respectful, healthy relationships
with their children. All of our work is based on a psychologically sound parenting and teaching philosophy called Love and Logic."
If
you are unable to attend the meeting, please let April know as soon as you
can.
If you are bringing a side dish make sure to have it there by
6:30. (Check the calendar HERE)
And finally, if your children will be joining us in MOPPETS please
email Becky.
Come ready to have fun!
Friday, October 11, 2013
Schaake's Pumpkin Patch
Saturday, October 12 we will be taking an adventure together to the Schaake's Pumpkin Patch. The fun is starting at 10am. We will meet up at the gate. If you can't make it by 10, don't stress, just come when you can! There are some great things for the kiddos to do and Hy-Vee is going to be there with yummy food. This is a day for the whole family.
Check out Schaake's Pumpkin Patch online HERE for more information and directions. Hope you can join us and as always, bring a friend!
Wednesday, October 9, 2013
The Good Mother
Love this article I read today. It reminded me of our theme for the year "A Beautiful Mess". Check it out! Here's the link:
http://www.elephantjournal.com/2013/09/the-good-mother/
Blessings!
Amanda
http://www.elephantjournal.com/2013/09/the-good-mother/
Blessings!
Amanda
Saturday, October 5, 2013
Thursday, October 3, 2013
Play Date
Play date tomorrow October 4th at Christ Community Church Playground from 3-5! Hope you can join us!
Mama Mouth
Me and My Mama Mouth
September 30, 2013
“She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.” (Proverbs 31:26 ESV)
The other day my son, a smart preteen, was up to the challenge of washing the dishes. He didn’t give me an attitude when asked. He wasn’t disrespectful. He didn’t drag his feet. So why was I battling the urge to harshly point out how he was doing it all wrong?
Because he wasn’t doing it my way.
He started with the grimy pots, then moved to the plates and silverware. Finally, he had to bubble up more water to spit-shine the glasses. While working, he stacked plastic cups in a pyramid.
Irritation welled up. An unkind reaction was itching to come out. I could easily have let my momma mouth take over: It uses way more water to wash the dishes in that order. Plus the water is filthy now! Stop playing with those cups while you work. You’re so slow.
I wanted to be a control freak. I wanted to fire off the unkind words hidden in my unspoken thoughts: The only way to do the dishes is my way. I see different as wrong. I interpret a preteen being a preteen—with a slight distraction of fun—as “slow.”
But when I unload on junior, or anyone, it has the potential to damage our relationship and plant mental seeds of his mom’s view of him, whether verbalized or implied (lazy, wasteful, distracted, and slow). It does not, as Proverbs 31:26 states, come close to resembling a woman who “opens her mouth with wisdom and speaks with kindness on her tongue.”
It’s better if these potentially frustrating scenarios play out differently. So let’s replay that scene with a Spirit-controlled response.
As I see my son doing the dishes, I can make a mental note to explain how to do it next time in a way that will save water, money, and time. I can praise his efforts, keeping in mind his age and abilities. I can acknowledge his unique method. I saw the clever way you stacked those dishes. You always make work fun.
I can ask myself questions that will help keep my mama mouth in check. Questions like: Does it matter now or will it matter tomorrow? Will it affect eternity? Is God trying to teach me something? Can I pause and praise instead of interrupt and instigate? Is this really an issue that needs addressing? Am I being a control freak? Do I need to let it go?
The interaction wouldn’t damage; it would nurture. It would be wise. Kind. And there would be no lost time, regrets, or need to call in the United Nations peace-keeping forces for intervention.
This mama would be less control-freakish and more Proverbs 31-womanish. It might not come easily—trust me, it usually doesn’t—but with the Holy Spirit, it is possible to speak with kindness.
Dear Lord, may I purpose to temper my words with Your Holy Spirit as I interact with my family today. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Related Resources
Can you think of a time you blew up at your child and wished you’d had a friend to turn to for advice? Our brand new Encouragement for Today book is just that—a trusted friend sharing God’s peace, purpose and perspective with you in 100 devotions.
Today’s devotion is a sample straight out of Encouragement for Today: Devotions for Everyday Living by the Proverbs 31 Ministries team. Click here to purchase your copy.
Need help with your mama mouth? Visit Karen Ehman’s blog for the free 5-Day “Pause Before You Pounce” Challenge designed to help you control your tongue when you can’t always control the circumstances (and people!) in your home.
Remember
My mouth can be a powerful tool of encouragement or a weapon of destruction.
Reflect
Which of the questions posed in the devotion (Does it matter now or will it matter tomorrow? etc.) do you most need to ask yourself when tempted to over-control?
Respond
Think of an incident from the past where you did not use your words in a way that was kind or loving. Revisit the situation. How could you have spoken in a way that would honor God? Could you have used a different tone of voice? Word choice? Timing?
Power Verses
Psalm 139:4; Psalm 37:30
The other day my son, a smart preteen, was up to the challenge of washing the dishes. He didn’t give me an attitude when asked. He wasn’t disrespectful. He didn’t drag his feet. So why was I battling the urge to harshly point out how he was doing it all wrong?
Because he wasn’t doing it my way.
He started with the grimy pots, then moved to the plates and silverware. Finally, he had to bubble up more water to spit-shine the glasses. While working, he stacked plastic cups in a pyramid.
Irritation welled up. An unkind reaction was itching to come out. I could easily have let my momma mouth take over: It uses way more water to wash the dishes in that order. Plus the water is filthy now! Stop playing with those cups while you work. You’re so slow.
I wanted to be a control freak. I wanted to fire off the unkind words hidden in my unspoken thoughts: The only way to do the dishes is my way. I see different as wrong. I interpret a preteen being a preteen—with a slight distraction of fun—as “slow.”
But when I unload on junior, or anyone, it has the potential to damage our relationship and plant mental seeds of his mom’s view of him, whether verbalized or implied (lazy, wasteful, distracted, and slow). It does not, as Proverbs 31:26 states, come close to resembling a woman who “opens her mouth with wisdom and speaks with kindness on her tongue.”
It’s better if these potentially frustrating scenarios play out differently. So let’s replay that scene with a Spirit-controlled response.
As I see my son doing the dishes, I can make a mental note to explain how to do it next time in a way that will save water, money, and time. I can praise his efforts, keeping in mind his age and abilities. I can acknowledge his unique method. I saw the clever way you stacked those dishes. You always make work fun.
I can ask myself questions that will help keep my mama mouth in check. Questions like: Does it matter now or will it matter tomorrow? Will it affect eternity? Is God trying to teach me something? Can I pause and praise instead of interrupt and instigate? Is this really an issue that needs addressing? Am I being a control freak? Do I need to let it go?
The interaction wouldn’t damage; it would nurture. It would be wise. Kind. And there would be no lost time, regrets, or need to call in the United Nations peace-keeping forces for intervention.
This mama would be less control-freakish and more Proverbs 31-womanish. It might not come easily—trust me, it usually doesn’t—but with the Holy Spirit, it is possible to speak with kindness.
Dear Lord, may I purpose to temper my words with Your Holy Spirit as I interact with my family today. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Related Resources
Can you think of a time you blew up at your child and wished you’d had a friend to turn to for advice? Our brand new Encouragement for Today book is just that—a trusted friend sharing God’s peace, purpose and perspective with you in 100 devotions.
Today’s devotion is a sample straight out of Encouragement for Today: Devotions for Everyday Living by the Proverbs 31 Ministries team. Click here to purchase your copy.
Need help with your mama mouth? Visit Karen Ehman’s blog for the free 5-Day “Pause Before You Pounce” Challenge designed to help you control your tongue when you can’t always control the circumstances (and people!) in your home.
Remember
My mouth can be a powerful tool of encouragement or a weapon of destruction.
Reflect
Which of the questions posed in the devotion (Does it matter now or will it matter tomorrow? etc.) do you most need to ask yourself when tempted to over-control?
Respond
Think of an incident from the past where you did not use your words in a way that was kind or loving. Revisit the situation. How could you have spoken in a way that would honor God? Could you have used a different tone of voice? Word choice? Timing?
Power Verses
Psalm 139:4; Psalm 37:30
Taken from Encouragement for Today: Devotions for Everyday Living by
Renee Swope, Lysa TerKeurst, Samantha Evilsizer and the Proverbs 31
Ministries Team. © 2013 by Proverbs 31 Ministries. Used by permission of
Zondervan. www.zondervan.com.